So you want to know how to kiss a girl and have her knees buckle? I will lead you in this article in accelerating your skills as a kisser. Learning how to kiss well is a skill that most men have not taken the time to really master. To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you. If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you. Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing. After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.
Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%. Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed.
So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her. One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention. People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed. The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss. Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not.
So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes. Secondly, people who are like each other "like" each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss. She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head. Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she's putting on your lips.
Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations: There's the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip. There's the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip. There's the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.
There's the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted. The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other. As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially.
Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute. Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it's a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she's doing. Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other. Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment. Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.
If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth. Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips. Let her take the lead first in beginning to dance with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.
Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance. If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper. There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, "I absolutely love kissing you", or "You are such an incredible woman", or "You are so yummy, I just want to devour you", etc. When you say these things in your head or to her it's going to magnify the potency of the kiss manifold.
This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you'll know what I mean. This is what will allow her to sometimes swoon and have her knees buckle a little bit during the kiss, because you are creating the energy of pure love while mirroring exactly the way she desires to be kissed and more. To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch.
Stroke her face gently as you separate briefly before lightly engaging her lips again. Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her. Coordinate the way you kiss her with how you masterfully touch her face, hair, neck, and back to create incredibly delicious sensations for her. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.
Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures. Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you're building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time. Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.
Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman. Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss. The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.
Savor every moment of the kiss with her and have this naturally lead you to deeper sensual and sexual exploration that will blow her mind. Mastering the fine art on how to kiss a girl is only the tip of the iceberg on bringing your woman absolute incredible pleasures that she does not even know is possible. Copyright (c) 2008 Neo Young.
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